Write Over the Weekend (WOW) – Dec 28, 2012

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I once dreamed about...

An India where I would notice the following:

•  Parents rejoicing as much about the birth of a daughter as they rejoice over the birth of a son.
• Daughters getting equal opportunity both to study and to work as sons get.
• Women getting the respect they deserve.
• People following rules at all walks of life including stopping at traffic signals, not spitting/littering, etc.
• Our Govt. being concerned about our welfare than just filling up their pockets.
• Not criticizing our country in front of others - "This is how it always happens in India."
• Caste and religion not playing such an important role in our day-to-day living.

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The one thing that I wish everyone would learn is.................

This is in response to the writing prompt for Wishlist Wednesday number 3. For details, visit this link: http://justamotheroftwo.blogspot.in/2012/12/wishlist-wednesday-number-3.html

The one thing that I wish everyone would learn is to appreciate each and every moment of each and every day. We all know life is so uncertain and could be snatched away from us at any point in time. However, how many of us actually act in our day-to-day lives based on that thought? Sadly, very few.

We crib about our jobs, income (or the lack of it), spouses, friends, neighbours, colleagues, health, roads, politicians, vacations, etc. (you get the picture). However, we wouldn't crib so much if we knew we had only a certain amount of time to live, say 6 months. We would then appreciate all the moments we had with all the people in our life.

Why, then, can't we do the same knowing fully well that we are going to die one day? Isn't that a certain amount of time to live as well?

Let us try and appreciate the life we have been given and the people in it. If we don't like something, let us work towards changing it. If we don't like someone, let us work towards eliminating that person from our life. But, let us not forget, even for a moment, to be grateful for this wonderful gift called life.

Sure, there shall be problems along the way. But, that's no reason to stop living, is it? Sydney J. Harris said, When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard", I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?". So, shrug off your problems and concentrate on living your life each day at a time. Practise gratitude and you will be amazed at the abundance that flows into your life!

Numb

The news when it came hit me like a storm. Though, going by the recent reports, it was evident that she may not live, when reality sunk in, numbness hit me. A 23-year-old snuffed out by some men out to make merry. Who has failed her really? The men? The police? The politicians? The media? There will be many debates now and many questions shall be raised. But her life will never come back.

Can such incidents be prevented? I sure hope so. But how? Questions for which there are no easy answers. Sure, we can increase policing. But how do we change men's attitudes?

Let's start with ourselves. Each time someone cracks a crude joke on women, let's stop them. Each time someone doesn't respect a woman, let's stop them.

Indian Quills Reading Challenge 2013

Stumbled onto this while surfing and sounded pretty interesting to me. The difficult part is finding enough good Indian authors whom I can read. However, I am willing to take up this challenge and intend reading at least 24 books (2 for each month :)) Wish me luck!!!

http://thetalespensieve.com/indian-quills-reading-challenge-2013/

Letter to a 10 year old

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The following is a letter to a 10 year old girl.

Dear Little Girl,

I would like you to remember the following as you live your life and march towards your dreams:

• The friendships you forge now shall stay with you for life. So make them wisely.
• Respect your parents even though they may not always be worthy of it.
• Be as involved in extra-curriculars in school as with studies. You will not regret it later.
• Let nobody undermine your confidence if you fail in a certain activity.
• Be close to your siblings even if you might want to rip their arms apart. They will be among your best friends later on.
• You will have plenty of time to be fashionable once you are an adult. Don't waste your childhood putting on make-up and branded clothes.
• Fall in love with books. They will never let you be alone. They will never let you down.
• Respect your teachers. They are doing the best job they possibly can with limited resources.
• Learn to respect your body. Let no stranger touch it.
• Develop a hobby be it painting, dancing, whatever.
• Have plenty of friends both male and female. The interactions would help both of you later.
• Do not ever lie to your parents.
• Avoid foul language. Do not associate with people who use foul language.
• Last, but not the least, enjoy your childhood. It is the only carefree time you have. Do not be in a hurry to grow up too fast, too soon. You will repent later.

Shave or Crave

This post is a part of the 'Shave or Crave' movement in association with BlogAdda.com

Shaving is a sensitive topic for most men because it includes a lot of effort (according to them). However, for me, personally, an unshaved man indicates uncleanliness, lack of professionalism and a total lack of respect for the other person.

For men to get rid of their evening stubble, I would try two routes:
1. Appeal to their rational side 2. Appeal to their emotional side

Appeal to their rational side:

As already indicated above, being unshaved indicates disrespect and disregard for others. If a man wishes to show respect and be professional, he needs to be clean shaven, no matter what the efforts involved.

Appeal to their emotional side:

Just as women take so much pain and efforts in being presentable and attractive (read: waxing, threading, facials, etc.) to their male partners, why can't men reciprocate on same lines? Can they not shave and be clean shaven for their partners? It would give them so much joy and the men would look handsome - a win-win situation for all.

Hum Aapke Hain Kaun - Memorable Dialogues

Continuing with my series of being heavily inspired by Bollywood movies and specially the dialogues, here's presenting some from Hum Aapke Hain Kaun or as we popularly call it - HAHK :) When the movie was released, it touched a chord across the nation, specially its innumerable songs at various functions spread across engagement, wedding, childbirth, etc. Of course, Salman and Madhuri's chemistry only added to its charm.

• Tumhe bajaana vajaana bhi aata hain ya...(Can be used when someone is posing with a musical instrument which they may not know how to play or if you want to simply irritate them:))
• Inko discussion kar lene do. Hum toh annt main aayenge (Thought of this when, at work, I decided to let my juniors do the initial bit of the assignment and I would step in later!)
• Tumhari aur meri manzil ek hi hain (multiple uses :))
• Bhabhi sabse jyaada sneh apne devar se rakhti hain. Dyaan rahe uski aankhon main kabhi aansoon na aaye